Okay...its nearly 5AM and I am awake. Problem #1.
This post is going to sound kinda bridezilla like, but I have to vent and this blog is one of the few places I can do that.
We are getting married in 23 days. Fiance still has nothing to wear. I'm just getting annoyed with him and his lack of desire to find something, his lack of regard for my opinion on what he should wear (and NOTE...when I had my dress narrowed down to three, I let him vote & ended up get his favorite). I have done so much stuff, just get an outfit already. We are talking like khaki's and a nice shirt. Not mission impossible. Ugh. I want to say wear whatever you want, blah blah blah...but if I don't push him, he won't get it done.
I understand that he is our breadwinner, he needs to work (and he works VERY hard!) This is his company's busiest time of year. Well, then WHY did YOU decide on May??!?! He jokes about it, and says stuff about flying down later/coming home earlier and stuff like that. Not funny.
The Shower is this Saturday. The women of our Church are hosting it. Its mainly Church people then a few of my closest friends & lovely family. WHY can't people RSVP? Why can't people RSVP to the people on the invite? I know its easier and more comfortable for people to RSVP to me, but ugh. Lesson learned, I won't be doing that to brides/moms-to-be regarding their showers in the future. This is how crazy my family is...my Aunt, (Great Aunt...Gpa's sister) instead of calling the woman from Church listed on the invitation, she calls my Gma, then Gpa calls my Dad. I know in the grand scheme of life and weddings, its not a big deal at all...just venting.
And, another thing about showers, I'm learning. Buy stuff on the peoples registry! Now, I know that sounds totally rude & ungrateful...trust me, that's NOT the case at all. It takes time to register and the people register for what they want/need. So far, from the looks of it...the great majority of people didn't buy stuff from our registry. I don't think I've ever went to a shower and bought something not on the registry, but from now on...I'll make SURE its on there!
Mom's health has been bad lately. I'm worried that she won't be able to go to the shower or if able to go, won't remember it...and having a shower was mainly for her, to make her happy. She wants me to do some traditional wedding stuff, and having a shower was one of them.
ST, my ex-fiance, who I remain semi-friendly with...and I have exchanged wedding related emails this week. Its been nice.
One shouldn't blog at 5AM because she sounds like a bit*h and probably has horrible spelling and grammar errors. Hope my readers will still love me in two days.
God is good, all the time. All the time, God is good!
This post is going to sound kinda bridezilla like, but I have to vent and this blog is one of the few places I can do that.
We are getting married in 23 days. Fiance still has nothing to wear. I'm just getting annoyed with him and his lack of desire to find something, his lack of regard for my opinion on what he should wear (and NOTE...when I had my dress narrowed down to three, I let him vote & ended up get his favorite). I have done so much stuff, just get an outfit already. We are talking like khaki's and a nice shirt. Not mission impossible. Ugh. I want to say wear whatever you want, blah blah blah...but if I don't push him, he won't get it done.
I understand that he is our breadwinner, he needs to work (and he works VERY hard!) This is his company's busiest time of year. Well, then WHY did YOU decide on May??!?! He jokes about it, and says stuff about flying down later/coming home earlier and stuff like that. Not funny.
The Shower is this Saturday. The women of our Church are hosting it. Its mainly Church people then a few of my closest friends & lovely family. WHY can't people RSVP? Why can't people RSVP to the people on the invite? I know its easier and more comfortable for people to RSVP to me, but ugh. Lesson learned, I won't be doing that to brides/moms-to-be regarding their showers in the future. This is how crazy my family is...my Aunt, (Great Aunt...Gpa's sister) instead of calling the woman from Church listed on the invitation, she calls my Gma, then Gpa calls my Dad. I know in the grand scheme of life and weddings, its not a big deal at all...just venting.
And, another thing about showers, I'm learning. Buy stuff on the peoples registry! Now, I know that sounds totally rude & ungrateful...trust me, that's NOT the case at all. It takes time to register and the people register for what they want/need. So far, from the looks of it...the great majority of people didn't buy stuff from our registry. I don't think I've ever went to a shower and bought something not on the registry, but from now on...I'll make SURE its on there!
Mom's health has been bad lately. I'm worried that she won't be able to go to the shower or if able to go, won't remember it...and having a shower was mainly for her, to make her happy. She wants me to do some traditional wedding stuff, and having a shower was one of them.
ST, my ex-fiance, who I remain semi-friendly with...and I have exchanged wedding related emails this week. Its been nice.
One shouldn't blog at 5AM because she sounds like a bit*h and probably has horrible spelling and grammar errors. Hope my readers will still love me in two days.
God is good, all the time. All the time, God is good!
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